The "Crisis" of the Successful Black Woman

This was the first episode I watched of The Spark and I was HOOKED. I just love how she talks about the issues. I ESPECIALLY think that the last 3 minutes are DEFINITELY on point! I think it is SO necessary for women to spend time working on themselves. I've learned that I need to be comfortable being single before I even worry about being in a relationship. I'm only 22, settling down is not in the near future so I don't have to focus so much of my attention and efforts on pursuing a man. I think there are SO many women out there who go out based on trying to find a man or trying to find a potential boo. It's just ridiculous. So like Bansu said: "If you're right then, if a man DOES come around next week, you'll be even better" But YOU have to be right first. And like Tionna said" FIND A HOBBY!!" I think I'm going to do a separate blog on this issue soon because I am seeing that this is something that needs to be in the minds of so many Black women... So... Here's the episode. PLEASE watch it.

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